Why Cancers people behave mean as Cancer people are popular for being a kind, nurturing, warm and caring personalities. However, when the situation calls for protection, coldness comes readily which is a collateral aspect of it.
All zodiac signs have a particular polar relation to their opposite sign. Psychologically, this relationship between opposite signs is characterized by shadow function.
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At the same time, they are complements to each other. Let’s take the example of a cancer. It’s like if inside every Cancer, there lives a Capricorn. Depending upon the level of growth or consciousness of the person, this shadow side can be well developed or underdeveloped aspect.
It’s the one that either complements the individual in their Cancers nature or derides it. That’s a fact that every sign can be warm or cold. They may have dual traits that are seen in Cancer/Capricorn axis.
Conversely, Capricorn men are well known, Cancer is the sign of woman and Capricorn of men, who were star nurturers. It’s natural when conditions don’t need masculine strength of Capricorn while at the same time, demand nurturing.
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Reasons why Cancers behave so mean
Self-preservation
Cancer sign pairing is among three that each of its unique trends, motivations toward specifically identifiable manipulation. Cancer/Capricorn relate to their primary function to protect them and promote growth.
When feeling up against it, eight of these signs will turn to lies and manipulation, not as an act against eh other rather an act of self-preservation.
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Dealing with a mean Cancer
The best way to deal with a cold or mean cancer is to not to take it personally. Rather take it with compassion and comprehension. It’s also advised to do things to promote a sense of safety and trust for them, so they feel capable to drop their guard with you.
They should be dealt with wise and sensible actions. Sometimes, it’s good to take their mean behavior lightly or simply ignore it. If it’s possible, you can sit with them at a quiet place and openly talk about their unacceptable behavior.
May be they don’t realize that they are being annoying for others. They may come to know that others are affected by their selfishness and ruthless attitude.
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Counselling
Its recommended that Cancers get proper counselling from a certified expert. He will guide him to become nice, loving, kind and decent.
They will get advice on how to behave in an acceptable way to become popular among friends. Some people find cancers highly selfish, passive aggressive, verbally abusive, victim players, hypocrites and ruthless to people who are good with them.
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They avoid confrontations and often hide behind their supporters. They are sarcastic and use harsh words to hurt people who don’t satisfy their ego.
They also hide their evil personality behind the mask of gentle face. Whatever is the case, experts reveal many good attributes of cancers. If they are bad and mean this can be justified by them.
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