A 19 Year Old Date a 16 Year Old may seem strange to some but the age of consent is decreasing. Sexual relationships start from a very early age.
In societies like the west, where people are more liberal and independent, a teenager is free to choose what he wants in life. So legally yes, a 19 years old can date a 16 years old.
19 years old dating a 16 years old
Legally it is allowed to date a 16 years old but you need mutual consent. If both partners are ok then it is fine to start the relationship. Teenagers want to get independent and have freedom in life’s choices as early as possible. They want to take control of their lives as soon as they reach their puberty.
Is it advisable for 19 years old to date 16 years old?
Well, if asking for sincere advice, we will say No. It may be allowed but it is not wise to start dating someone from this early age. Sexual relationships need to be dealt with maturity. Most relationships made in teen-age are not based on “sane” grounds. Teenagers tend to make emotional decisions rather than practical and wise ones.
In teen-age, emotional bonding can get very strong. At this age, if they have to deal with heartbreak, they can’t handle it. Many teenagers make emotional choices and if gone wrong they can get detract from their paths. Some can get themselves indulged in violence and others in drugs.
Maturity comes at a certain age and with experiences. Teenagers are advised not to take friendships to next level without realizing what the future might bring for them. Intimate relationships are more than just a “need” of the body. You need a soulmate and a partner who can be with you through thick and thins of life.
Relationships made at this age usually don’t last long. As soon as both partners get mature and realize their life priorities, they part their ways. Emotional damage can haunt them for their whole life so they need to think seriously about it.
It is a very sensitive age. People may have acceptance and tolerance for things which can be a big no for them later on in the future. So, there is no guarantee that these relationships will last long.
Looking at the bright side
Well, every coin has two sides. Some people have been really lucky to find their soulmates at this early age. The best thing when your relationship lasts forever is, you two know each other from very early years. This can create a feeling of trust and understanding that will bring eternal peace in life. Mutual bonding and love in this couple can exceed with time which is good for both partners.
In short, a 19 years old can legally date 16 years old but we advise to keep it slow. This may turn out wonderful but one needs to be careful while making important life choices.
Virginity in teenagers
Alone in America, a teenager loses virginity on average age of 17 which may be quite shocking for some people. The concepts of “individual choices” and “independent life” have changed the norms and values in the past few decades. Now everyone is responsible for his/her actions.
A few decades ago even western societies were considered conservative. Eastern cultures still need time to develop acceptance for that kind of “freedom” where children are allowed to choose their partner from a very early age.
Dating at age of 16 is considered “taboo ” in many conservative societies. In many Asian countries, parents decide which person to marry and at what age?. It surely needs to be changed.
